With the stress over the Christmas period, I was reminded of this, as things did get a little hectic at times.

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Focus in the ‘here and now’- with non-judgemental acceptance, allows the individual to separate their thoughts and emotions. Daily practice recommended: Used in the treatment of depression and anxiety and proven being of benefit people suffering from chronic pain.

Some Mindfulness Techniques to Practice

One Minute Exercise:

Sit in front of a clock or watch that you can use to time the passing of one minute. Your task is to focus your entire attention on your breathing, and nothing else, for the minute. Have a go – do it now.

 

Mindful Eating:

This involves sitting down at a table and eating a meal without engaging in any other activities – no newspaper, book, TV, radio, music, or talking. Now eat your meal paying full attention to which piece of food you select to eat, how it looks, how it smells, how you cut the food, the muscles you use to raise it to your mouth, the texture and taste of the food as you chew it slowly. You may be amazed at how different food tastes when eaten in this way and how filling a meal can be. It is also very good for the digestion.

Mindful Walking:

Here the same principle, while walking you concentrates on the feel of the ground under your feet, your breathing while walking. Just observe what is around you as you walk, staying IN THE PRESENT. Let your other thoughts go, just look at the sky, the view, the other walkers; feel the wind, the temperature on your skin; enjoy the moment.

De-stressing Exercise:

  • Bring yourself into the present by deliberately adopting an erect and dignified posture.
  • Then ask yourself: “What is going on with me at the moment?”
  • You simply allow yourself to observe whatever happens. Label any thoughts that you have and then leave them alone….just be prepared to let them float away. Attend to your breathing or simply take in your surroundings instead.
  • Besides thoughts, there may be sounds you hear, bodily sensations that you are aware of. If you find yourself constantly elaborating on thoughts, rather than labelling them and returning to the neutral, remember to observe your breathing.
  • When emotions or memories of painful events occur, don’t allow yourself to become caught up by them.
  • Give them short labels such as “that’s a sad feeling”, “that’s an angry feeling” and then just allow them to drift or float away. These memories and feelings will gradually decrease in intensity and frequency.
  • More importantly, you will begin to identify yourself as an objective observer or witness rather than a person who is disturbed by these thoughts and feelings. This requires practise but can then be used whenever you are stressed.

Associated Breathing Exercise:

Stay with any distressing thoughts for a few moments, then as you let them float away, you gently redirect your full attention to your breathing. Pay attention to each breath in and out as they follow rhythmically one after the other. This will ground you in the present and help you to move into a state of awareness and stillness.

References/useful links

http://www.wildmind.org/applied/daily-life/what-is-mindfulness

https://www.verywell.com/mindfulness-meditation-88369